You never know where learning a skill like music can take you.
In my case, I learned to play music as an adult and my chosen instrument was guitar.
An average man who sends 18 messages to women his own age can be 50% certain he'll receive at least one response.
For women, they need to send only 5 messages to be 50% certain they'll get a response.
Looking at higher confidence levels, if a woman wants to be 90% certain she'll receive a response from a man her own age, she'll have to send 13 messages. Finally, to be 99% certain she'll receive a response, a woman must send 25 messages to men her own age. This leads us to believe that one potential cause of the disparity between the male response rate and female response rate is the system itself.
It's one of the fundamental issues with online dating in general.
Sure, it's taken a long time, but like any valuable skill the rewards lie waiting for the man willing to rise to the challenge of giving it a serious go.
This year I even put on my first solo show, at the 2017 Sydney Fringe Comedy Festival.
If you've checked out my story, you'll know that I used to be paralysed by anxiety in front of people; so for me to put together a full hour of original material and let go of worrying what the audience might think of me was a huge achievement.
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